So, after a bunch of mindless posts (my brother says so), i’m attempting to type-down (can’t say pen-down) a very cliche one. Actually, thanks to an incident this morning, I was forced to think and smile about how somebody else’s life is judge-able to you! Although, the truth being, it happens to each of us (I mean almost), say about 60% percent of the living population. Very common, very cliche, very teenage (may be adulthood too). But it persists!
“Falling for more than one person”. Have you? (You just thought of two names, may be) #JustSaying 🙂
So may be you have. Acted like a total vegetable. If it’s happened in college, you have tried to cross their paths at a particular classroom. canteen, foyer, main-gates, libraries, until you have a glimpse of them. Floors you, doesn’t it?
If it’s happened in your colony, your timings to play in the evenings, to move out, to be standing around them and just smile. Your office, your school, your friend-circles, drinking groups etc.
So who do you like the most? Decided yet? One, sets your pulse racing at just one sight. The other makes you smile, like all the time, with just their conversations, as mindless as they can be. How do you decide? I mean come on, not every one can make your heart beat (literally) faster and slower at the same time. And, where do you find that one person, who you just love spending hours, just talking to. Yes, it is a life-altering decision at 20. Life does that to you. Actually, you do that to yourself.
Thinking about them, your life with them. Funny that you think about two people you wish to be with. (Polygamy is not an option here) And you still find the time to judge another somebody for their actions? Hasn’t it crossed your mind that someone else too can be in a situation as you are?
I may have started off with something and ended with a completely different topic. But that’s how we all prefer it. Start off with one and end with a whole new chapter!
It’s ok to not judge. It’s ok to be confused. It’s ok to have a crush. It’s ok to be wrong. It’s ok.